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    #300   2007-05-23 15:35 GMT      
    my mom doesn't want me,i don't want to live with my dad,or grandma what can i do or go??

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    #301   2007-05-23 15:46 GMT      
    First of all killing yourself is never the answer and you can never come back from doing so. It's selfish and wrong. If your mom doesn't want you, then you don't want her because obviously she isn't a good mother-you are her child and she should want to help you in times of need- maybe you should give your dad a chance or even your grandma. Obviously there are people who care about you. I don't know how old you are so I can't tell you what else to do. Life gets hard sometimes but it will get better.

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    #302   2007-05-23 15:46 GMT      
    How old are you? I moved out when I was 17 but I moved in with my friend and her mom. Otherwise your just gonna have to stick it out. That's that price you pay for being young. I suggest you go to the library and get some self-help books in dealing with parents. They're yours forever so I suggest you start learning how to like and "live" with them. It sure would make the next few years a lot easier. Just try it. Know ever thinks of trying to get along. Just how to get out. That's probably why the divorce rate is so high: people just wanna leave instead of trying to make it work.
    Go to the library or a book store and find some books on living with your parents.

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    #303   2007-05-23 15:51 GMT      
    Talk to your mom and ask if you can stay with another relative. If you don't want to stay with family, then ask your friends if you can live with them. If they say no, then see if you can stay at a foster home or an orphanage.

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    #304   2007-05-23 16:16 GMT      
    First of all .... plz get the thought of running or killing out of ur head.
    Secondly, are u sure ur mom does not want u?....if u r then why dont u give ur dad a chance? or ur grandma? ..... i dont know how old u r but u have to put up with this situation for maybe 2-3 more years?...... so wots 3 years in front of the next 50 years of ur life?..... its not much. So think abt ur rest of the life.... plan for it...... study for it ....... and most important - fight for it.

    Dont let the disppointments of ur life right now take over ur life to the extent of u thinking such negative thoughts. This situation u r in right now will not b there for next 50 years , right?....so think abt that and brace urself and endure the situation for a few more years - they may seem long but they will end - have faith. In yourself n God. Take care and plz dont do anything rash.
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