Jade Goody?

Give it to him straight: you cannot be blackmailed like this. Its not fair to do that sort of thing, so say you're sorry for his problems but he must find a way to deal.

Honey, you've got to be honest with this guy. Tell him you're flattered, and that you really wanted to give him a chance, but you're not clicking.

Letting it go further will just hurt his feelings more, so nip this in the bud now - it's kinder to him.

Lets think about this. Tell his parents and yours because obviosly your are to stupid (i know this because you said yes) to do anything about it.

You can't save the world or the people in it. So.... save yourself!!!!

Does he still live at home? If so, you should talk to his parents. It is not your responsibility to resource this guy. Don't ever let a man manipulate you like that. Be honest with him, and tell him exactly how you feel. Also tell him it is wrong of him to try to get you to stay by threatening to kill himself. Advise him to get professional help and get out asap!

get him 2 no some other ppl then sooner or later wen hes got some new mates say sorry but its not working he wil take it in and find sum1 else

You can't be forced to date this guy because you don't want him to kill himself. He's trying to manipulate you into doing that. Not only should you not get involved with someone who is completely unstable, you can't take responsibililty for what he might or might not do. (And he probably won't do that anyway, honestly.)

Run girl!!!

try to help him , tell him to see someone ho can fix his problem,

try dont get involved with him, talk to someone about this, because he may try to kill you, i would not go out with him

-He needs help and you can't just stay with him just becaue you feel sorry for him. Can't you talk to him? Maybe tell him that if he talks about harming himself that he really don't love you. Tell him how selfish he is being and you can never want someone like that. Tell him that, if he matures and acts like a man then you will consider being with him but for now you can't. Talk to one of his family or friends and tell them what he said. -

once i read your question, i was like "woah! this JUST happened to me, like, three weeks ago!"
my closest guy friend asked me out. he is a druggie and promised me he'd stop. "just stay around, i'll stop" he would say. i feel strongly for him, but wanted out. he said i meant so much to him he didn't want me to leave. so i didn't because i didn't want to hurt his feelings.
well it got to be too much and i broke up with him. then he cut himself. brutally. six deep bloody slashes on his forearm. i felt AWFUL. i couldn't believe i drove him to this! i got back together with him out of sympathy.
i ended up telling his family and the school about the issue and i officially ended it. i couldn't be unhappy and he had too many problems with himself to be in a successful relationship. he threatened me and his life, but i told the appropriae people RIGHT AWAY and he's better now.
and so am i

so tell someone! save him from himself, but don't build him up by saying yes because the crush will be even worse.

and remember, whatever he does, it is not your fault. you cannot control people's reactions to your actions.

-Adelaide

LOL...... he ISN'T ur responsibility so stop worrying.
show him ur VERY VERY irresponsible by being late, don't pay any attention to what he says... if u see a familiar face when out with him chat to them or even ask them to join u.......talk on the phone etc
Do all the anti's we try not to on a date wear something sensible don't show any flash and BE careful ......don't b alone with him he might do u harm......get rid of him asap......ask friends/family to keep checking u by phone etc.

This guy is using pity to get get you.Dont be cruel when you let him down but you do have to let him down.Tell him that you like him but dont like him as anything more than a friend.If he starts crying and threatens to kill himself,tell him you will miss him.If he sees he cant manipulate you by threatening to harm himself he might get the hint.If he is a teen living at home tell his parents about his threats to hurt himself.They need to know.If you two are adults,then you should think about moving,to get away from him.It's OK to be friendly with him just let him know thats all .FRIENDS.

He isn't your responsibility, you have to do what's right for you. Tell him he needs to get profesional help and that blackmailing you isn't the way to keep you. chances are he wouldn't do it, it's all a threat to keep you.